11 It is probably your parents' fault, but it is your responsibility to fix it.

Look I love parents. Without mine I wouldn't be here. . .

yes, yes I did 'Just'.*

Your core personality is said to be developed prior to the age of 5.
It is influenced by those you spend the most time with in those 5 years.
Which for most of us is our parents. 

Consider your habits and personalities traits. Consider your parents and their traits, flaws, habits, and oddities. I am going to guess you have a little of flawed parent one and a little of flawed parent 2, and a handful of 'who the flawed knows'* rolled in. 
You don't have to pay it forward if I came at the end of belt; the dragons temper or the hoard. There are different ways to be, to parent, to rage, or even store your things. Some may be more health, some may be less... but the point is you don't HAVE to be the product of your flaws. 

A story to illustrate this a little better.
We have all heard the story about the wife who cuts the end off a ham? This is one version of the story I've heard. 

A husband and his wife were in their kitchen. The husband was sitting at the kitchen table reading the newspaper while his wife was preparing a ham for dinner. The husband watched the wife cut off about one inch from either end of the ham. He asked why she cut the end off, proclaiming “that’s a waste of good ham!”
She said “that’s the way my mom prepared the ham.”
The husband asked “why did your mom cut the ends off?”
The wife didn’t know.
Later, the wife called her mom to find out why she cut the ends of the ham off. Her mom said “because that was the way my mom prepared ham.”
Finally, the Real Answer!
The wife’s grandma passed away several years earlier, but her Grandpa was still living. She called her Grandpa and asked “Grandpa, why did Grandma cut the ends off of the ham?” He was silent as he thought for a moment. Then he replied, “so the ham could fit in the baking pan.”

You may not know why the insanity started, but you don't have to be the reason why it is an endless ham!




*Not even remotely sorry. 

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