#7 Be the difference you didn't have

"You can take these hurtful events in your life that all become a building block by nature, use this hurt to help others by building a protective shelter for them... not a wall to keep them out. You can let your life be the difference... another 'you' did not have. If not you, then who will be the champion you desire?"
-R.T. Vance 2009

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